{"id":369,"date":"2026-06-08T02:29:14","date_gmt":"2026-06-08T06:29:14","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2026-06-08T02:29:14","modified_gmt":"2026-06-08T06:29:14","slug":"confess-or-criticize-?","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/c2creset.ondigit.us\/?p=369","title":{"rendered":"Confess or Criticize ?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: rgb(0, 102, 153);\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>Confess or Criticize ?<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Memories of events and actions also drift when they don&#8217;t fit the mental structure I use to make sense of the world. If my belief of who I AM won&#8217;t accommodate things I experienced or acts I committed, that belief will drift around in my mind. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Secrets and hidden agendas are kept adrift by dis-aligning beliefs like, &quot;I can&#8217;t reveal this.&quot; I have to keep sending it attention energy so I don&#8217;t reveal them by accident. The more secrets I have, the more mentally crippled I will be. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Confessing instead of criticizing will free up stuck bits of data. The move to more self-honesty is the handling of any transgression of any period in the past:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">1) Repent by saying: &quot;I&#8217;m really sorry&quot;.<br \/>\n2) Confess by saying: &quot;I did it&quot;.<br \/>\n3) Start to repair the damage the transgression has caused.<br \/>\n4) Decide to responsibly follow the guidance of your intuition.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><a href=\"?p=370\"><span style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 255);\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong>read more &#8230;<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"width: 132px; height: 116px;\" src=\"\/userfiles\/image\/ylw-Q-atn.gif\" alt=\"\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(255, 102, 0);\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><a href=\"?p=975\"><span style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 255);\">Rumi<\/span><\/a> quote:<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(255, 102, 0);\">&quot;What strange beings we are! <br \/>\nSitting in hell at the bottom of the dark, <br \/>\nwe are afraid of our own immortality, <br \/>\nafraid of our power to heal the suffering in ourselves!&quot;<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"color: rgb(255, 102, 0);\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Confess or Criticize ? Memories of events and actions also drift when they don&#8217;t fit the mental structure I use to make sense of the world. If my belief of who I AM won&#8217;t accommodate things I experienced or acts I committed, that belief will drift around in my mind. 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