Love, Peace, and Joy
Love, Peace, and Joy
as universal spiritual gifts
Neurological Skull-brain’s perspective on love,
based on MRI scans:
Plato: "On Earth, the God of Love lives in a state of need."
This describes a pain-based conditional love. PC’s are involved.
VTA’s are the skull-brain’s neurons, and dopamine, estrogen, testosterone, serotonin, oxytocin, are its hormones involved.
There are 7 basic love-drives, operating in our skull-brain systems, that are not always well connected with each other. Thus the need/desire for love via a vibrational-resonance, or mental, or emotional attachment to someone else can be fully or partially satisfied, by:
- Your lust (Yang²) or sex-drive (offline or online, fysical or fictional) upgrading to mastering the sexual-energy flow through Tantra/Tao (Yin²) Yoga.
- Anyone of the many senses, online or offline, like drink-buddies, sport-buddies, dance-partners, sex-partners, art-buddies, etc.
- Like-mindedness, through cultural, educational, and/or sub-conscious awakening similarities.
- Biological-, akashic record-, karmic-, and celestial-, MD-DNA imprints-based parental & sibling love, or lack thereof, and love for certain physical-, mental-, and/or emotion-based activities.
- Most father<>daughter MD-DNA-based love is deeper/stronger than love between parents. This love may produce vibrant, youthful feelings in the father, strong feelings of jealousy in the mother, and confusing sex/love-based feelings in the teenage girl. An unavoidable love/sex-triangle potentially full of drama and confusion, if not fully understood!
- ‘Romance’: The feminine vibe needed for him and the masculine vibe needed for her. He/she energizes me. Everything is special, never stop thinking about and will always love him/her! It is more powerful than a sex drive. It’s a neural itch, not an emotion. It is sexually possessive, obsessive, thus pain-based.
Romantic love lives in the skull-brain’s Pleasure & Pain part, and thus very addictive. When serotonin levels are raised via addictive drug intake, dopamine levels (romantic love) are suppressed. This kills the sex drive, thus kills orgasm, thus kills the flood of hormones that regulate attachment, thus kills this kind of love. - Giving/receiving Means of Survival: in the form of a successful business partnership or in the form of safe shelter, clothes, healthy food, and/or any other help needed.
It is a SPELL or PROGRAM! A LOVE-SPELL/PROGRAM!
You can feel a deep attachment to one partner, while you can feel romantic love for someone else, while you feel a deep physical attraction to someone totally unrelated. Thus, we are capable of skull-brain loving many beings at the same time.
You can better understand your feelings about the relationship with someone by rating on a scale from 1-10 each of the above 7 love needs/wants, from non-existing via satisfactory to fabulous. You probably will attract other beings into your life to partially or fully satisfy those needs/wants that your current partner can or will not provide, and possibly help break each spell/enchantment.
The Dark-Double old scholar says: "Humans were designed to reproduce and work, not to be happy. The happiness we find, we have made."
Even a heartfelt love, or admiration, or serious happiness, is conditional and rooted in ‘pain‘ in the tainted and patched-up heart and skull-brain, but it can partially or fully compensate for the lack of some of the above 7 ‘loves’ in a partner.
Skull Brain Love
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Belly (Gut) Brain Love
The Gut-brain adds to this: new and important elements of feeling, respect, humility, tenderness, kindness, mindfulness, belly-breathing, belly-laughter. The joy-love we feel will come spontaneously from the belly’s gut-brain.
Love as defined by the Apostle Paul
in 1 Corinthians 13
as delivered on 8/8/2002
- If I speak in tongues of human beings and of angels but I don’t have love, I’m a clanging gong or a clashing cymbal.
- If I have the gift of prophecy and I know all the mysteries and everything else, and if I have such complete faith that I can move mountains but I don’t have love, I’m nothing.
- If I give away everything that I have and hand over my own body to feel good about what I’ve done but I don’t have love, I receive no benefit whatsoever.
Love is patient, love is kind. Love isn’t jealous, it doesn’t brag, it isn’t arrogant, it isn’t rude, it doesn’t seek its own advantage, it isn’t irritable, it doesn’t keep a record of complaints, it isn’t happy with injustice, but love is happy with the truth.
Love puts up with all things, trusts in all things, hopes for all things, endures all things. Love never fails.
As for prophecies, tongues, and knowledge, they all will be brought to an end.
We know in part and we prophesy in part; but when the perfect comes, what is partial will be brought to an end.
When I was a child, I used to speak, reason, and think like a child. But now that I have become a man, I’ve put an end to childish things.
Now we see a reflection in a mirror, then we will see face to face.
Now I know partially, but then I will know completely in the same way that I have been completely known.
Now faith, hope, and love remain, but the greatest of these three is LOVE.
Click Rumi’s image for quotes about LOVE
We like to add the following:
Since love, hope, and faith often leads to strong feelings of disappointment or even trauma, we prefer to replace them by Peace and Joy. Each of those can be best experienced when you return to a state of no-thingness.
Connecting with your soul/spirit allows you to feel joy no matter what happens outside of you. You can make that connection when you fully align with your joyful soul/spirit’s intentions, and the script it wrote for manifesting them.
This requires feeling through all the baggage/garbage caused by the remnants of all the trauma you experienced in the past, which brought into manifestation your dark dragon or demon.
Gazing at nothing brings peace to a rattling mind. That’s why ocean-view dwellings are now the most expensive locations, because your mind quiets down when looking at a seemingly endless stretch of water. You essentially look at no-thing.
Another way to bring more peace, love, and joy to the heart / mind / soul is practicing the Tao, Yin/Yang, as well as Spatial Attention.
The interplay between Yin (passive) & Yang (active) fills the heart with hilarity.
Any imbalance between these two will lead to suffering.
Yin² = LOVE ?
"One should always be in love.
That is the reason one should never marry."
Oscar Wilde